You're doing it all wong!!! [ptII]

There's all these things in my head telling me I am doing things wrong, that I'm a misfit, that I suck at life...
Is it even me who said this?
(or are these someone else's old rantings?)

And do I even agree?

You're doing it all wrong!!

I keep telling myself how much I am doing wrong; but how much am I doing right?

I'm doing shitloads right!! :D
I'd almost say I'm kinda getting it; this thing called 'life' 😂

Let's agree to disagree.

In life you got beaten either physically, verbally or both...

The younger you are, the bigger chances are that you make them your own.

...you might even take over some of the exact words and repeat them to yourself your entire life.

But the big question is.. 

Do you agree?

...to these messages that are not of your own.

Stupid psycho! ᵖᵃʳᵗ²

What if one of my great wheel-chaired buddies say; "I know I'm physically disabled, that I need a wheelchair, but I'm not going to use it."

Wouldn't that be silly?

more than just using one, and let it defy who you are?

You are not your wheelchair, you are not your support group, you are not your clothing, poison or music.

You might me part of you, you might be part of it, but it does not defy you.

Your character, standpoints, morale and (re)actions do.

I love all of you whom try to do your best<3

(especially if you have not much tools at hand)

And don't forget; Kill 'em with kindness ;)

panic vs. focus

When you panic you loose oversight and the mental ability to focus on what the options are and.. What is important...

You either freeze or end up doing something that has not the highest priority...

So try to remain calm, and when you can't; try to find out afterwards why you really panicked.. What is it's true source?

acquaintance-zoned

In times of need... You get to know your real friends.

Sometimes only to find out that you have less friends than you thought...

But that only heightens the value of the ones left <3

 

(You know who you are ;) )

Who am I supposed to be?

The new Icon for a hire's song "Supposed To Be" made me think ( <insert puns here xD ) ...
Much flown trough my mind with this simple question...

Group-pressure, the need for acceptance, the wanting for fitting in...
Broken home, child-care... Label-wearer, damaged goods...
Bullies, work, this system we build that weighs us down...
T.v., school, and the constant access to everything trough the internet...

So much that forms and defies us.

But...

Who are you, and...

Who are you supposed to be?

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