I don't know for sure, only time can tell..
But for now.. I think that the only way for me to really be ready for a relationship is...To immensely self-reflect and to be really at peace with myself (and the being alone part)
What do you think that prepares you for an future stable relationship?
Bonus: Three Days Grace clip with parts of the Hilary Duff movie 'Raise your voice' :')
There's a voice inside my head yelling "I'm ready!"
ReplyDeleteThat voice resonates from the heart and it's not being rational.
To form a lasting stable relationship you need pillars to hold it.
These pillars are passion, life goal and character.
If you immense yourself in your passion (be it your career or your hobby) and set is as your life goal to become succesful at it you build character.
This attracts the right kind of people that want to be with you because they admire you.
The tricky part is to filter out the people that you admire for the same reason.
Why does everything look easy on paper (correction: on blogs) but is hard to pull off in real life?
I know what you mean alright xD
DeleteThe heart loves some wishful thinking :')
I think your right! And i think the trick in this is to not have an ulterior motive... like; wanting to be ready for a future partner that is... than your motivation is all crooked. You have to do it for yourself.
With the same reason you mean because they're not ready?
Haha; it does, doesn't it? xD
It's because we can read it faster than we can actually make it happen...
It took me a minute or less to read it; but these kind of processes take months if not years :P
All very well spoken by the way ^^
Always feel so free to react on me :3
Exactly. At some point it could bring imbalance in the relationship because they're not there yet where you are.
ReplyDeleteHaha, We millennials are an impatient lot. I think it has to do that we're a living in a western society where going fast is the new norm. And because of the digital age we are living in it's easier to be monkey branching from one relationship to another opposed too figuring yourself out first and what you are looking for in your lifemate.
Thank you and thanks for being an inspirator!